Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Narcissist, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Again, God-Led Relationship

13| Types of Grief After Heartbreak - Is It Healthy To Keep Mutual Friends?

Dating after divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you're carrying the weight of grief that others don't understand.
In this episode, we explore the many faces of grief after heartbreak—from mourning your future dreams to navigating family separation—and why honoring your grief is actually the pathway back to love.What You'll Learn:
The 5 types of grief you experience after heartbreak (and why each one matters)How family separation creates layers of loss beyond just losing your partnerWhy "getting over it" isn't the goal—healing isPractical steps to honor your grief while opening your heart to new possibilitiesHow to recognize when grief needs professional support
Key Takeaways:
Grief and hope can coexistYour ability to grieve deeply is your ability to love deeplyHealing isn't linear, and that's okayYou're not broken—you're breaking open
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12| How To Become An Irresistible Woman

Discover the six transformative habits that make mature women absolutely magnetic.
This isn't about superficial attraction - it's about stepping into authentic power and irresistible confidence that can only come with wisdom and experience.
Your scars and experiences are part of your power, not weaknesses to hide
Boundaries aren't walls - they're gates that you control
Age is an advantage when it comes to knowing what you want
Quality relationships vs quantity every time
Self-care is about honoring your whole self
Living with purpose creates irresistible energy
 
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11 | When Loneliness Makes You Go Back To Your Ex

 
💪 The 4 Practical Steps You'll Learn:
Create your "Solitude Pact" - A powerful tool for moments of weaknessTransform urgency into prayer - What to do BEFORE picking up your phoneBuild your support network - Why you shouldn't fight this battle aloneRediscover your identity - Who you are when no one else is watching
💝 What Other Listeners Are Saying:"This episode came right when I needed it most. I cried, prayed, and for the first time I feel strong enough not to go back" - Sarah"The practical steps are pure gold. Especially #2 has saved me from sending texts I would regret" - Jessica"I had never heard loneliness explained from this biblical perspective. It changed how I see it" - Maria
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🔖 Quotes to Reflect On:
"Temporary loneliness is better than permanent wrong companionship"
"You're not half an orange waiting for the other half. You're a complete woman in Christ"
"Your worth doesn't depend on having someone by your side"
"The woman you are when you're alone is the real woman"
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10| The Temptation of Being Friends With Benefits

Why This Arrangement Doesn't Serve Your Heart
What "friends with benefits" really means 
The emotional and spiritual reasons why these arrangements don't work for Christian women
Friends with benefits arrangements rarely stay emotionally neutralSaying no to the wrong thing opens doors for the right thing
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9| From Broken To Beautiful - God Restores but He Is Waiting To Hear From You

In this powerful 30-minute Bible study, we dive deep into Isaiah 43:18-19 to discover God's heart for healing your past relationships. Whether you're walking through divorce, recovering from a painful breakup, or struggling to trust again, this episode will show you how God wants to transform your wilderness into streams of living water.
What You'll Learn:
The Biblical Foundation for Healing: Understanding what it truly means to "forget the former things" without suppressing your emotions.
Breaking the Dwelling Cycle: Practical tools to stop replaying old hurts and redirect your thoughts toward God's truth.
Recognizing God's "New Thing": How to identify the healing and restoration God is already working in your lifeFrom Wilderness to Streams: Discovering how God makes a way through your relational desert seasons
Key ScriptureIsaiah 43:18-19 (NIV): "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the desert."
Supporting Verses Referenced
Ephesians 4:32 - On forgiveness and compassion1 John 3:1 - On your identity as God's beloved daughterJeremiah 29:11 - On God's good plans for your future
Practical Applications Covered
How to process emotions without getting stuck in themDaily Declaration Practice: Morning affirmations based on ScriptureThought Redirect Prayer: A simple prayer to refocus when dwelling on past hurtEvening Gratitude Practice: Recognizing God's daily work in your healing
This Week's Challenge
Read Isaiah 43:18-19 each morning and declare God's new work in your lifePractice the thought redirect prayer when old memories surfaceJournal daily about one "new thing" you see God doing
Journal Prompts
What old relationship pattern am I ready to leave in the past?How do I want to be different in my next relationship?What is one way I can see God making "streams in my desert" right now?
Memory VerseIsaiah 43:18-19 - Commit to memorizing this powerful promise of God's restoration in your life
Connect with MeIf this episode touched your heart and you're ready to go deeper in your healing journey, I'd love to connect with you personally. I'm offering free 30-minute breakthrough sessions where we can discuss your specific situation and create a personalized path forward. Book your session at [your booking link].
Next Episode PreviewJoin me next week as we explore "Rebuilding Trust: God's Blueprint for Healthy Boundaries" - essential tools for protecting your heart while staying open to love.
A link will be provided via instagram on Wednesday morning. @Manifesting.infaith 
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8| God's Timing vs. Your Loneliness

The difference between healthy desire for companionship and desperate loneliness.
Understanding your single season as sacred space, not a waiting room.
Recognizing when loneliness is driving decisions vs. genuine readiness.Learn how to wait well: honesty, intentionality, and contentment.
Why God's timing involves preparation, not withholding
Featured Scripture:Ecclesiastes 3:1 - "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven."Additional Biblical References:
1 Corinthians 7 (Paul on singleness as a gift)Genesis 2:18 ("It is not good for man to be alone")Philippians 4:11 (Paul's contentment)
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✨ Identify whether you're operating from healthy desire or desperate loneliness✨ Create a personalized plan for using your single season intentionally✨ Develop tools to discern God's voice in your dating decisions✨ Build unshakeable contentment while you wait for God's best
What clients are saying:"I finally understand the difference between waiting and preparing. My whole perspective changed!"
"I stopped settling for less than I deserve and started trusting God's timing completely."
Don't let another day pass feeling torn between your heart's desire and God's plan.
Your season of waiting can become your season of greatest growth. Let me show you how.
Are you tired of the constant tension between your loneliness and God's timing? Do you find yourself making dating decisions from desperation rather than discernment?
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7| Pros/Cons Of Multidating

Learn the Pros and Cons when multi dating.
 
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6| Stop Making These Mistakes

Let's explore one of the most important but least discussed topics in love:
the need to heal our emotional wounds before seeking a partner.In this episode you'll discover:
Why we tend to rush into relationships as an escape mechanismThe signs that indicate you need time to heal before starting a new relationshipHow childhood wounds and past relationships influence our current romantic decisionsPractical strategies for taking the necessary time for your emotional healingThe difference between looking for someone to "complete" you versus someone to grow with
This episode is for you if:
You notice you repeat the same patterns in your relationshipsYou feel constant urgency to be in a relationshipYou've ended recent relationships and are already looking for the next oneYou want to break generational cycles of dysfunctional relationshipsYou desire to build healthier and more conscious relationships
Remember: taking time to heal isn't selfishness, it's self-love. And self-love is the foundation of all true love.
 
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