Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
4| He Is Still Married...
Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Healing After Divorce, Emotional Stability, Trauma Healing, God-Led Relationship, Single Mom
Did your divorce feel like it didn't just break your marriage, it broke you?
Like somewhere between the pain, the paperwork, and the nights you couldn't sleep... the woman you used to be quietly disappeared.
Your confidence walked out the door. Your sense of value went with it.
And deep down, you started wondering if real love was simply no longer meant for you.
If that's where you are, you are exactly where you need to be.
I'm Patty Martin-Guerra, and I'm not speaking from the outside looking in, I'm speaking from someone who sat in that same darkness.
I know what it's like to carry the quiet shame of a failed marriage.
To feel paralyzed by the thought of starting over.
To lie awake asking God whether you were too old, too wounded, too far gone for Him to write anything beautiful with what was left of your story.
But here's what I found on the other side of all of that:
Wholeness was always waiting for you. It still is.
Dating After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is where the real, unglamorous, necessary work actually happens. We go deep on healing the invisible scars your marriage left behind.
We name the cycles that kept pulling you backward.
We rebuild, piece by piece, your identity, your worth, and your trust in God's plan for your love life. So that when the right person arrives, you're not just available.
You're whole. You're grounded. You're ready.
Each week, I'll bring you the honest conversations nobody else is brave enough to have, the truths your closest friends can't quite articulate, your pastor tends to sidestep, and no search engine will ever hand you.
Because you weren't meant to simply outlast your divorce.
You were meant to flourish after it.
🗓️ New episodes every Tuesday, subscribe now and let's take this journey together.
Your story isn't over, sweet friend. The next chapter? It's only just beginning.
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes.
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Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
In this episode, we explore the crucial differences between genuine attentiveness and subtle manipulation in dating relationships. Learn to identify red flags and green flags while developing biblical discernment in your romantic relationships.Key Topics Covered:
Characteristics of genuine attentiveness vs. manipulationRed flags that indicate manipulative behaviorGreen flags of healthy, attentive partnersThe importance of trusting your God-given intuitionBiblical wisdom for relationship discernment
If you are searching for guidance 1-1 to navigate the dating world, I am here to help.
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Monday Jun 09, 2025
Monday Jun 09, 2025
Are your dating standards keeping you from finding love?
In this episode, we explore the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations that might be sabotaging your relationships. From social media influence to past hurt protection, we uncover where impossible expectations come from and how they're costing us genuine connections.
Key Topics Covered:The Movie Hero Complex and other common unrealistic expectationsHow social media and pop culture shape our relationship idealsThe hidden costs of perfectionist dating standardsDistinguishing between healthy standards and unrealistic expectationsPractical steps for dating with wisdom and faith
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Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
If you've been struggling in the dating world, feeling discouraged about love, or wondering if God has forgotten about your heart's desires - this episode is specifically for you.
Three years ago, I was exactly where you might be right now. Exhausted from dating apps, healing from toxic relationships, and wondering if real, godly love was even possible for someone like me. I was ready to give up on love altogether.
But then something incredible happened. When I stopped looking for love and started seeking God's heart, everything changed.
Today, I'm married to the most amazing, godly man who loves Jesus and loves me exactly as I am.In this week's episode, I'm sharing the three specific tips that completely transformed my love life. But more than just tips, I'm sharing how putting my faith first led me to a love story more beautiful than anything I could have imagined.
This isn't about changing yourself to find someone - it's about discovering who God created you to be and positioning yourself for the love He has planned for you.
Whether you're single and searching, dating and confused, or healing from heartbreak, this episode will give you hope and practical steps to transform your approach to love.
Listen now and let me know how it impacts your heart. I have a feeling this might be exactly what you needed to hear today.
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