Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Narcissist, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Again, God-Led Relationship

I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord..
For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best.
Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter.
Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts.
Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings!
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Episodes
Episodes
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
4| He Is Still Married...
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Listen to this episode and learn the emotional complications that dating someone not yet divorced gives you emotional complications include being second priority, dealing with unresolved baggage, and relationship instability
Bible Verses Referenced:
Psalm 27:14 - Wait on the Lord
If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself some headaches and years of disappointments, schedule a 1-1 sesion with me.
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Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
3| Manipulation Is Not Love, Don't Let Him Fool You
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
Tuesday Jun 17, 2025
In this episode, we explore the crucial differences between genuine attentiveness and subtle manipulation in dating relationships. Learn to identify red flags and green flags while developing biblical discernment in your romantic relationships.Key Topics Covered:
Characteristics of genuine attentiveness vs. manipulationRed flags that indicate manipulative behaviorGreen flags of healthy, attentive partnersThe importance of trusting your God-given intuitionBiblical wisdom for relationship discernment
If you are searching for guidance 1-1 to navigate the dating world, I am here to help.
Sesion 1-1
Monday Jun 09, 2025
2| Unrealistic Expectations Keep You From Blessings
Monday Jun 09, 2025
Monday Jun 09, 2025
Are your dating standards keeping you from finding love?
In this episode, we explore the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations that might be sabotaging your relationships. From social media influence to past hurt protection, we uncover where impossible expectations come from and how they're costing us genuine connections.
Key Topics Covered:The Movie Hero Complex and other common unrealistic expectationsHow social media and pop culture shape our relationship idealsThe hidden costs of perfectionist dating standardsDistinguishing between healthy standards and unrealistic expectationsPractical steps for dating with wisdom and faith
1-1 sessions HERE
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
1| 3 Key Points That Led Me To Find My Husband
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
Tuesday Jun 03, 2025
If you've been struggling in the dating world, feeling discouraged about love, or wondering if God has forgotten about your heart's desires - this episode is specifically for you.
Three years ago, I was exactly where you might be right now. Exhausted from dating apps, healing from toxic relationships, and wondering if real, godly love was even possible for someone like me. I was ready to give up on love altogether.
But then something incredible happened. When I stopped looking for love and started seeking God's heart, everything changed.
Today, I'm married to the most amazing, godly man who loves Jesus and loves me exactly as I am.In this week's episode, I'm sharing the three specific tips that completely transformed my love life. But more than just tips, I'm sharing how putting my faith first led me to a love story more beautiful than anything I could have imagined.
This isn't about changing yourself to find someone - it's about discovering who God created you to be and positioning yourself for the love He has planned for you.
Whether you're single and searching, dating and confused, or healing from heartbreak, this episode will give you hope and practical steps to transform your approach to love.
Listen now and let me know how it impacts your heart. I have a feeling this might be exactly what you needed to hear today.
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