Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Narcissist, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Again, God-Led Relationship

22| Stop Comparing Yourself

Key Topics Covered:
Why comparison steals your God-given identityHow comparison blocks your blessings and future opportunitiesWhy comparison dishonors God's timing and sovereignty5 transformative questions for breaking free from the comparison trap
Key Bible Verses Referenced:
Galatians 2:20Psalm 139:14Hebrews 12:2Ephesians 3:20Ecclesiastes 3:1Romans 8:28
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21| This Kills The Attraction When Starting to Date

Why being too available kills attraction (and it's not about playing games)
The unconscious message you send when you're always accessible
How to build a life that naturally creates healthy boundaries 5 practical strategies to shift from "too available" to "appropriately interested"
The mindset shift that changes everything in your dating life
Why the right men will step up when you step back Mentioned in This Episode: The importance of maintaining your own identity after divorce
Why humans value what they invest in
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20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety

Today we're going to talk about that invisible companion that controls your life without anyone else noticing: anxiety
If you wake up with a weight on your chest and don't know why, this is for you
Key Points:
Anxiety isn't "just stress"It's not cured by positive thinking or "getting over it"It's a prison you build yourself, brick by brickPhrase to repeat: "Anxiety convinces you that if you worry enough, you can prevent bad things"
Description of how it feels:
The constant knot in your stomachThe voice saying "something terrible is going to happen"Permanent hypervigilanceThe exhaustion of always being on guard
Concrete examples:
"You stop accepting invitations because 'what if...?'""You avoid difficult conversations because conflict terrifies you""You stay in relationships that don't nourish you because change scares you""You postpone your dreams because you never feel 'ready'"
Transition:"And so, without realizing it, your life becomes smaller and smaller. You live in your comfort zone, but the truth is there's nothing comfortable about it."
THE REAL COST OF ANXIETYFour areas anxiety destroys:1. It steals your present
2. It sabotages your relationships
3. It paralyzes your potential
4. It exhausts your body
If you're seeing yourself reflected in this, I want you to know it's not your fault. But it is your responsibility to do something about it.In my personalized sessions, we identify exactly how anxiety is manifesting in YOUR specific life. We don't talk in generalities.
We go straight to YOUR triggers, YOUR patterns, YOUR solutions. And this month I only have space for 5 new women because each session requires my complete attention.
WHY YOU HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO OVERCOME IT What you've tried (and why it didn't work):Meditation apps
Give temporary reliefDon't work on the root of the problemAnxiety comes back stronger
Motivational phrases
"Positive thinking""Just breathe deeply"Don't work because anxiety isn't logical
Keeping it secret
"I don't want to bother anyone""Others have worse problems"Isolation makes anxiety worse
Waiting for it to pass on its own
"Someday I'll feel better"Anxiety doesn't disappear without interventionIt becomes your new "normal"
The hard truth:If you could get out of anxiety alone, you would have already done it. It's not lack of willpower. It's that anxiety creates deep neurological patterns that require specific intervention and expert guidance.Transformation story:
Client who couldn't sleep without checking doors 10 timesOr woman with panic attacks in public placesOr the one who avoided everything out of fearHow they broke free with specific work
I don't do generic therapy. I don't give you a list of exercises and 'good luck.' I create a specific plan for you. For your type of anxiety. For your circumstances. And I can only do this with a limited number of women because it requires real depth.
WHAT FREEDOM LOOKS LIKE Close their eyes and imagine:
"Waking up without that immediate weight on your chest""Making decisions based on what you want, not what you fear""Having a difficult conversation without your heart jumping out of your chest""Sleeping deeply, without 'what if...' scenarios""Being present with people you love, truly present""Pursuing your dreams without fear paralyzing you"
YOUR MOMENT TO DECIDETwo paths:Path 1: Stay the same
Wait for anxiety to disappear on its own somedayAnother month, another year with the same weightWatching your life become smallerLosing opportunities, relationships, peace
Path 2: Commit to your freedom
Make the bravest decision of your lifeDo the deep workRegain controlLive without that constant weight
Don't wait for anxiety to get worse. Don't wait to hit rock bottom. Don't wait to 'be ready.' The perfect moment doesn't exist. The moment is now.If the idea of contacting me gives you anxiety, that's exactly the sign you need to do it. Anxiety doesn't want you to change. I do.Contact me today for your personalized session. Not tomorrow. Not next week. Today.Because every day that passes with anxiety is one less day of peace you could be living.Because you deserve to wake up without that weight.Because you deserve to live without constant fear.Because you deserve your freedom.Anxiety isn't your fault, but it is your responsibilityI've seen hundreds of women break free. You're next.
Your freedom is waiting for you. You just have to take the first step. I'll see you on the other side.
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19| Discover How Your Past Traumas Affect Your Love Life, and Heal Them

Your Past Traumas Are Sabotaging Your Love Life (And How to Heal Them)"In this episode we explore:
Why you repeat the same patterns in relationshipsSigns you need to heal these woundsThe first step to transforming your love life
 
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18| My Ex Has Not Apologize For What He Did...

If you've ever stayed awake waiting for an apology that never comes, this episode is going to free you
Stop being a prisoner of external validation
Learn self-forgiveness as a radical act
Learn the freedom that comes with self-acceptance
Learn how to start building your new life without their blessing
 
If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me. . .
 
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17| Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth

Divorce doesn't define you, disqualify you, or diminish your worth in God's eyes. If you've been carrying shame about your past marriage, this episode will help you break free and step into the love and life God has planned for you.
Why God sees your heart, not your marital statusHow divorce doesn't disqualify you from God's best Breaking free from shame vs. conviction - knowing your true identity in ChristPractical steps to release shame and embrace who God says you are
Key Scripture:"Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." - Romans 8:1Resources Mentioned:
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16| The Mirror Effect In Christian Dating

The Mirror Effect: Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of Man"Are you tired of the same relationship patterns repeating in your life?
In this powerful episode, we explore the Mirror Effect - how our past relationships reflect our internal beliefs about love, worth, and God's design for us.
 
Discover the three types of mirrors revealing your heart and learn how to break the cycle once and for all.What You'll Learn:
The biblical foundation of the Mirror Effect in relationshipsHow to identify the three mirrors: Wound, Worth, and WallGod's three-step healing process: Recognition, Repentance, RenewalPractical steps to prepare your heart for your God-given partner
 
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15| Are You Guarding Your Heart or Hardening It? - Find Out

Discover God's blueprint for setting healthy boundaries that honor Him and promote your healing.🙏 What You'll Learn✅ Why guarding your heart is a biblical command, not selfishness✅ Practical boundaries to set with your ex-spouse, family, and yourself✅ How to protect your heart without hardening it✅ Signs of a guarded vs. unguarded heart during divorce✅ How healthy boundaries affect your children and future relationships
📝 Main ScriptureProverbs 4:23: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
Morning Boundary Assessment: Pray for daily heart protection guidanceThe "Gate Check": Evaluate conversations before engagingEvening Reflection: Journal about how boundaries helped your decisions
📚 Supporting Verses
1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (Love and boundaries)Joshua 1:9 (Courage for boundaries)Acts 5:29 (When others criticize boundaries)
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