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31| Why You Can't Trust Good Men - Part 3 The Wound of Betrayal

In this episode we explore how past betrayal trauma affects your current relationships, even with good men who are doing everything right.
 
We discuss the self-sabotaging behaviors many of us develop as protection mechanisms—checking phones, creating loyalty tests, keeping escape plans—and why these patterns keep us trapped in a cycle of distrust.
 
I share Monica's story, a woman who ended a healthy relationship because she couldn't accept that someone could be genuinely transparent, and I give you a practical vulnerability exercise you can start today.
 
If you've experienced betrayal in the past and feel like you can't let your guard down with someone new, this episode will help you understand why—and how to begin healing.
 
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30| Stop Shape-Shifting Into Who He Wants - Part 2: The Wound of Rejection

What is the Inner Child?
Abandonment WoundHumiliation WoundBetrayal WoundRejection WoundInjustice Wound
 
Learn: 
What Creates Rejection Wounds? and How to begin to heal from it.
 
This episode is for you if you:
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man 
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return 
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before 
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing 
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past 
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know 
 
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29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment

Learn What Creates Abandonment Wounds?Physical abandonment: absent parent, divorce in childhood, death of a parentEmotional abandonment: parent present physically but emotionally unavailable, neglectConditional love: love given only when you performed, achieved, or behaved "right"How Abandonment Shows Up in Your Dating Life:Anxious Attachment - You become clingy, need constant reassurance, fear being leftTesting Behavior - You push men away to see if they'll stay (self-fulfilling prophecy)Settling - You accept breadcrumbs because any attention feels better than noneHyper-Independence - "I don't need anyone" becomes your armor, preventing intimacyMoving Too Fast - You rush commitment to secure the relationship before they can leave
 
Does This Sound Like You?
​
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man 
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return 
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before 
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing 
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past 
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know 
 
If you nodded your head to any of these, I'd like to ask you some questions for a research I am doing.
I AM NOT SEELING ANYTHING - I simply want to understand your journey better so I can serve women like you more effectively
If you or someone you know are interested, please send me an email to my email address listed below.
🔗 patty.martinlifecoach@gmail.com
 
 
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28 | How to Spot a Narcissist Before Your Heart Gets Involved

Spotting Narcissists Before You Fall Again
Why your fear of dating again isn't about you being "not enough"5 red flags that identify narcissistic behavior earlyThe difference between godly love and manipulationHow the Holy Spirit guides you toward healthy relationshipsBiblical truths to anchor your worth and decision-making
 
Ready to Go Deeper?Join the You Are Enough Workshop and learn how to free yourself from narcissistic relationships with parents, ex-partners, or current relationships.
Break the cycle and step into healthy, God-honoring love.
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man 
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return 
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before 
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing 
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past 
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know 
If you nodded your head to any of these, then my end of year workshop is for you.
Sign up for my completely online workshop YOU ARE ENOUGH
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27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season

Your Person Exists: Why the Wait Is Preparing You for the Love You DeserveIf you've been waiting for the right person and starting to wonder if they even exist, this episode is for you.
As a life coach for Christian women navigating life and love after divorce, I see so many beautiful women losing hope in their waiting season. But what if I told you the wait has a sacred purpose?
Ready to Stop Waiting and Start Preparing?
Join my 5-Day workshop YOU ARE ENOUGH, where you will learn how to:
✓ Begin your healing journey after divorce✓ The patterns keeping you stuck✓ Prepare for lasting love actually looks like✓ Become the woman who's ready for her person
Don't spend another year waiting passively. Your person exists - let's make sure you're ready when God brings you together.
 
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26 | I Can't Remember Certain Details of My First Year After Divorced - And I Felt So Ashamed

Normal (short-term symptoms not long after your divorce): Divorce memory loss, can't remember after divorce, divorce fog, post-divorce trauma, healing after divorce, divorce brain fog.
 
Can't remember details from your first year after divorce?
The fog is real. Learn why memory gaps are normal, how your brain protects you during trauma, and how to heal.
The Fog is real when going through such trauma as Divorce!
I am sharing how I struggled to remember certain events from the first year after my divorce, and how that made me feel like I was damaged goods.
Don't miss the blessing that this episode will be to you, and help you to move forward from thinking you as if you are defective.
 
Does This Sound Like You?
You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man 
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return 
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before 
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing 
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past 
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know 
If you nodded your head to any of these, then my end of year workshop is for you.
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25 | Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men: And How to Finally Break the Pattern

Does This Sound Like You?
​You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems
​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man 
You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return 
You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before 
You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing 
You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past 
You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know 
If you nodded your head to any of these, then my end of year workshop is for you.
Sign up now and receive a BONUS - 
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24| You Have It All But Still Feel Empty - From Loneliness to the Companionship You Deserve

You're successful. You've built an incredible career, achieved financial stability, and created a life most people dream of. But when you come home after a long day, there's an emptiness. The one thing missing? A loving, caring husband to share your life with.In this episode, I'm opening up about my own journey—how I had everything at 49 except the right person. I'll share how shifting to a God-led approach to relationships transformed everything and how you can create the same breakthrough, no matter your age.
This conversation is for the woman who has worked hard, achieved her goals, and is ready for the next chapter—a God-centered marriage with a partner who truly sees and values her. If you're frustrated, tired of the dating scene, or wondering if it's even possible for you, this episode is your permission slip to believe again.
If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself  years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me. . 
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