Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Narcissist, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Again, God-Led Relationship

I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord..
For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best.
Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter.
Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts.
Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings!
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I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord..
For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best.
Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter.
Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts.
Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings!
Schedule Your FREE Discovery Call - HERE
Pre-register for the upcoming women's retreat in Orange County, CA - Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist
Join our Facebook group - Dating After Divorce
Episodes
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7 days ago
7 days ago
Your divorce gave you something priceless: wisdom, clarity, and zero tolerance for BS. That's not baggage—that's your superpower.
Shift your mindset from "I'm damaged" to "I'm refined." You're not starting over; you're starting from a place of experience and strength.
Use your divorce as a filter. The right man will see your past as proof of your courage and depth, not as a red flag.
Date with boundaries and standards. You know what you don't want, so you can be clear about what you DO want without apology.
You survived the end of a marriage. That makes you brave, resilient, and ready for a love that actually deserves you
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes.
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38| Here Is Why You Need To Pray For Your Future Husband
Thursday Feb 05, 2026
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Praying for someone you know might feel weird. But that is how you make it real.
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes.
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Tuesday Feb 03, 2026
37| How To Turn Your Divorce Into Your BIGGEST Dating Advantage
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Divorced women have something that women who've never been married don't have.Experience. Wisdom. Zero tolerance for nonsense.
You've been through the fire. You know what a relationship looks like from the inside—the good, the bad, and the "oh heck no."!
And that makes you dangerous. In the best possible way.
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes.
LINK
🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women
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Afraid of being alone after divorce?
Learn why settling for less out of fear of missing out keeps you from the incredible relationship God has planned for you. Discover how to overcome loneliness and trust God's timing in your dating journey.
Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence?
Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.
Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes.
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35| How to Unblock Your Blessings
Tuesday Jan 20, 2026
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HOW TO UNBLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS: A Path Back to Love 💕Feeling like love has passed you by? Wondering if you're too broken, too damaged, or too late for the blessings God has in store? This episode is your reminder that your blessings aren't lost - they're just waiting for you to clear the path.THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:
You're divorced, separated, or healing from heartbreakYou feel unworthy of love or happinessYou're ready to stop blocking your own blessingsYou want to step back into your power and prepare for love
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34| Stop Over-Explaining Yourself: What James 5:12 Teaches About Boundaries
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Are you struggling with setting healthy boundaries as a Christian? Do you feel guilty saying no or find yourself people-pleasing instead of being honest? In this episode, we dive deep into James 5:12—'Let your yes be yes and your no be no'—to discover what the Bible really says about healthy boundaries in relationships.
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FROM:
A divorced Christian woman over 40 who is wounded, isolated, and paralyzed by fear—carrying shame about her past, believing she's unworthy or "damaged goods," convinced good men don't exist or won't want her, second-guessing her standards, afraid to trust herself picker or date again.
Although she “believes” that there is someone out there for her, she feels hopeless and exhausted at times and doubts that God's plan includes real love for her at this stage of life.
TO:
A healed, confident woman who knows and owns her worth in Christ, clearly understands what she wants in a relationship without apology.
Has shifted her limiting beliefs about men, dates with discernment and boundaries (not desperation or fear), and she engages in faith-based dating while continuing her growth, and trusts both herself and God's timing to bring the right man to her.
She is patiently waiting for the right person.
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Tuesday Jan 06, 2026
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HUMILIATION WOUND -THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS:What Actually Happened to You:INJUSTICE WOUND - THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS:What Actually Happened to You:
listen to the full episode to find out if you need to heal from these traumas and how they are affecting your current adult life in general, not only your love life.
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32| Rewriting Your Love Story in 2026 - Let Me Show You How
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Another year has gone, let the old habits go with that year as well and welcome the new better habits this 2026
Let me teach you how....
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